Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Are Peruvian Women Crazy or What?

Haha! Before you start freaking out and sending me insulting e/mails or making insulting comments based on the title of this article, let me explain it. You see, the other day I was innocently going through some of the background information on my web page, and I stumbled across the list of search terms which people typed in to eventually land on "Streets of Lima." The search query "Are Peruvian Women Crazy or What?" caused some poor soul to land on my article "How to make a Peruvian Woman Happy" (which probably didn't have the answers the poor guy...or girl [not dismissing a homosexual relationship here] was having).

Now, I really don't condone somebody just ASSUMING that people are crazy. You see, most of the problems people have when dating somebody from another culture are just as much due to your own personal quirks (which you think are acceptable because they're normal in YOUR culture) as they are anything else. Very rarely is it due to the fact that the other person is certifiably crazy (although that can happen from time to time as well).


In MY experience, Peruvian women are about a 1000 times more emotionally stable (not to mention reasonable) than American women...actually it's probably more like a billion times, or a number so big that you can't even fathom it. Furthermore, Peruvian women are actually interested in making a relationship work IN ADDITION TO having a career, being a parent, and growing as a human being. This is in contrast to the anti-male state of America in which you can't say your wife wants to be a mother without having seven feminists groups attack you as being another raging example of the ever-present male oppressor who keeps all women barefoot and pregnant. Basically, any comment that any American male makes regarding American women is just instantly dismissed as coated in flagrant sexism...which is a sad barometer of the state of bigotry that exists in the US...but I digress.


So, what I'm getting at is to say no, Peruvian women aren't crazy. However, if you've been trained as an American male, you look at situations a certain way, and since female response isn't UNIVERSAL (that is, it varies by country), you might misinterpret how a Peruvian woman will react to certain things (assuming you were expecting a American woman's reaction).


A brief example of what I'm talking about can be seen in a discussion I had with a few Peruvian girls who thought the concept of Alimony was extremely sexist. "Women can take care of themselves," they said angrilly, "why would the STATE insist some guy support them? That's absurd."


They really said that, but try using that same argument back stateside (if you could get a woman to say it, it might be considered, if a man said it, it would be instantly dismissed).


Peruvian women WANT you to do various things for them that American women don't. One of these things is to engage in a dialogue as an equal rather than just be a subservient cur. Also, don't make a bunch of self-depricating jokes which reflect poorly on masculinity ("typical male, can't stop and ask directions"), Peruvian women get PISSED if you sulk around with some bullshit, "poor me," attitude (which is just the kick in the ass most guys need).


I think the main thing, though, is that in an argument, you have to stand your ground (and these arguments are going to get LOUD). That being said, don't pick any old stupid fight over any old stupid thing. But if it's something really, really important, the type of thing that you simply CAN'T endure living with, you have to stand your ground. Obviously, you can't use violence (which in this type of situation doesn't work anyway), so the trick is to somehow establish the power of your barganing position and make your partner take you seriously. Both men and women have to do this eventually in their relationship, and really, your relationship is like your "training camp" where your coach gets you into shape. When you go throughout the rest of the day, hopefully you're prepared to recognize what is fair treatment, not take it when it isn't present, and have the strength to back up your position.


The thing that's in your favor with Peruvian women is that, unlike American women, they actually want to have a functional relationship and are willing to work to make it happen. Sooner or later they'll stop "seeing red" (only if your position is inherently reasonable I might add), and come forward willing to negotiate. Sometimes, this takes a separation of a day or two, and those can be hard to hold out through, but you have to do it.


However, if you let somebody push you around (like you've been trained to do by American Media and TV...the "official" ideal American man is like that wimpy kid who stars opposite Jack Black in "Year One"...although in real life, American women hate that guy too), and you tolerate a bunch of behaviors you secretly can't stand, you deserve to be miserable and not have anybody respect you.


Look, it's fairly easy. When you don't like some sort of behavior:


1. Say, "I don't like this" and explain it calmly.


2. If the person is dismissive, say, "then the relationship is over."


3. Leave.


You just can't be around people who don't take you seriously when you say something makes you feel bad. The trick is to be very strict on this point, but also always willing to forgive when somebody shows genuine remorse. Also, people appreciate you more when you are vocal on things that are ruining not just your relationship with them, but their relationship with everyone else. Lastly, it's also up to this person to point out the things that you do which are wrong, and you have to also be willing to hear them.


There you go.


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166 comments:

  1. Nice one Ben. Maybe you can start a relationship/advice column back in the States.

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  2. I thought it was idiotic. Although your 3 steps to resolving conflict were entertaining. You need to revist this one one you are 45. It will be a much different piece.
    Good luck man, you will need it.
    How old are you anyway? Keep up the (mostly) good work!

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  3. Ok you can't really know how they like unless you live in Peru,I compared women and peru and women from the USA and I say...I pefer USA women,mostly since peruvian women are real b**ches,if you interview one and you are from another countrie(example: USA)they'll say that they are conservative and don't like to cheat,but if a Peruvian person interviews,like I saw,they don't care of relationship,they only want money and expensive stuff,even if in the USA there are some b**chy women atleast you can find women that are right for you,I know,lived in Peru 5 years and in the USA 7 years so I know.Sorry for cursive words,but it makes me mad, in the USA i find good women,in Peru I can only find Money eating women.

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    1. After 3 years of your posting I am reading your stupid comment. Let me tell you, I am Peruvian and your comment offends me and all Peruvians females. Be careful of what you say, I don't know where in Peru you lived, but You are totally incorrect. I don't know what is your nationality, but I wish to know it to judge you better. I understand your ignorance and I forgive you, but at the same time I recommend you to go the school. People like you are that way due to the ignorance and probably in pain because you probably wanted to take advantage of them. Well, females from the USA for you are better because you can take advantage of them getting you citizenship. Thank you ignorant person.

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    2. fuck you guys

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    3. I am 100 percent opposite than you
      I lived in bothe places
      peru woman are 100 times btte than American woman

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  4. This is strange that I happened upon this website. My hubby and I have a very good friend whose wife divorced him a few years ago. He went to Peru to "find a new wife" as he read and heard the women there are "obedient", "do what their man wants", "home-loving", "do not work outside the home", "worship their man", "never look at another man", "cook, sew, keep the home immaculate", "love a houseful of children" and are always intent on pleasing their man. Hehe...Well, he did indeed find a wife, and it took a year to get her into the US. As soon as she got "settled her" and became a citizen..WOW...did things change!! She did NONE of the above, was filthy, dirty, would not do ANY housework..even though she EXPECTED a "top-of-the-line" home and went through her husband's money like water! Soon,,arguements insued..really BAD ones...such as hitting her husband over the head with a frying pan, etc. It ended when he called my hubby..barely able to speak with severe stomach cramps. We called 911 and also went to the hospital. He had been POISONED, and is very, very lucky to be alive. Thankfully, there was an immediate investigation, the "poison food" was found in the garbage at his home, and his wife was charged with attempted murder!! Basically, all she was after was a "ticket" to the U.S. Well...hehe...now she had a "ticket" to prison and will be sent BACK to Peru. This is just ONE guy, but I've read about others who endured the same thing...oddly...poisoning. So...guys...think BEFORE you marry one of these Peruvian women! They are NOT what they seem to be...

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    1. YES i DATED A PERVUIAN WOMAN FOR SOME TIME ABSOLUTLY BEAUFTFYFUL BUT WHEN YOU DATE HER YOU DATE HER FAMILY TOO AND IF YOUR NOT SPIANSH WELL GUESS WHAT. SHE LOVED SEX BUT WHAT A BITCH JUST REMEBER WHEN YOU MARRY A SPIANISH WOMAN YOU MARRY HER FAMILY TOO , SHE CUSED ME OUT MANY TIMES THEN WOULD CRY SHE LOVED ME .
      GOD BLESS AMERICA IF THEY ARE SO PROUD OF THERI BACK GROUND WHY DONT THEY STAY WHERE THEY CAME FROM ?/ WHY BECAUSE THE MAKE SHIT OUT OF EVERY PLACE THEY GO I GUESS ITS ALL THE ARAB BLOOD THEY HAVE, NOT ONE SPIANISH PERSON DOESNT HAEV ARAB BLOOD IN THEM , LOOK AT THE ARAB NATIONS. BOY ARE SOME PEOPLE GONA BE PISSED OFF WITH THIS ONE BUT TRUTH HURTS HAHAAH

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    2. 55% OF PERUVIANS ARE NOT SPANISH, YOU RETARDED AMERICAN IDIOT.
      THESE PEOPLE ARE DESCENDANTS OF THE INCAS AND THE REASON WHY THEY SPEAK SPANISH IS BECAUSE THE SPANISH RULED 300 YEARS AND IMPOSED THEIR LANGUAGE TO THE NATIVES.
      CALLING A PERUVIAN "SPANISH" IS LIKE CALLING MICHELLE OBAMA ANGLOSAXON JUST BECAUSE SHE SPEAKS ENGLISH AS FIRST LANGUAGE.
      LOOK AT PENELOPE CRUZ AN SPANISH AND NADINE HEREDIA, LET's FIRST LADY AND YOU WILL SEE THE VAST DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SPANISH AND PERUVIANS

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    3. You know what, I am an American and I am being married with a Peruvian lady and everything what happened to those guys is opposite. My beautiful wife is such a lovely person and hard working person. She learned how to cook my favorite food and she spoils me daily.Plus she works everyday and she takes good care of my children and my house. I feel sorry for the bad situations, but not all Peruvians are the same. I think that I am a lucky man.

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    4. I have to agree with you whole heartedly. I have a wonderful Peruvian girlfriend. We are both about 60 years of age, both previously married. She is the most wonderful considerate woman a man would want to be with. With her and I it is completely joint, neither of us demanding more than our share. There is 100% respect by both of us at all times. In all societies we will find the positive and the negative in relationships. As human beings many people are too concentrated on the negative side and these people are mainly selfish and have no idea how to give or compromise. Have a Happy Day everyone!!!

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    5. I must say i am sorry for that man he could have found that woman anywhere. I have been married to a Peruvian woman for 15 years and i could not have found a better woman anywhere. It is not a matter of what she does for me everyday, it is cheaper to hire a maid if that is what you want, or a prostitute if that is all you want. All these generalizations are what get people into trouble.

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  5. PERUVIAN WOMEN FOR THE MOST PART ARE MONEY HUNGRY BACKSTABBING AGRESSIVE ANNOYING VIOLENT AND WILL TRY TO GET OVER ON A MAN IF POSSIBLE. AND I SAY THIS WHILE BEING A PERUVIAN MAN WHO HAS LIVED HALF HIS LIFE IN PERU AND HALF HIS LIFE AROUND THE WORLD. MY AUNTS FEMALE COUSINS AND SISTER ARE ALL THESES TYPES OF "PERUVIAN WOMEN"

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  6. Hello angry men that call peruvian women backstabbing bitches lol xD,
    you can't steroptype everybody just because you had "a" bad experience with a peruvian woman, I mean , that's stupid.And you have to get to know the person you are marrying right?, if you just go to Peru to find a women, because you want her to "sew","clean your house" and "worship you", then you are the one wrong here.And, please to that peruvian guy,just as you say that "peruvian women are for the most part money-hungry,backstabbing,aggressi,annoying and will try to get over on a man if possible", then I could also say a lot of bad things about peruvian men, so shut your mouth.

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  7. A piece of advice for all those perfect wife seekers. Dont look so hard AND dont even mention citzenship. My fiance and I have been engaged for almost a year now. She cannot be admitted to the U.S. for 10 years. By that time she will be 45. We left to go to Peru together, the question of her getting citizenship before that 10 years is up, is slim. She wasnt happy, but at the same time, she didnt care, because she has me. Wherever we are and no matter what we do, its the feelings we have for each other. So if citizenship isnt on the table for a very long time, you will really know if she is a bitch or the treasure you were searching for. I had no interest in Peruvian women before hand, we just happened to meet by a far off chance, and we never looked back. She is one of those women who wants certain things. She doesnt want to clean all day, but she wants to own a business, and make dinner, and do things for me to make me happy and her happy, but she always expresses her feelings when she doesnt want to do something. All I have to say is, alot of people dont really put their relationship to the test. I know in 10 years, if we decide to move back to the U.S., she will not poison me or our children. But some guy who says hey look this lady does everything I ask and doesnt object, should really open his eyes and take away any benefit of a relationship other than the just having each other. Take away citizenship, say you love Peru and never want to go back, see how they take it. That poison thing sounds terrible though. Its unbelievable what some people will do. I guess thats life in this crazy world, where no one wants to do anything other than lay around. ALSO PERUVIAN WOMEN ARE NOT ALL CRAZY, only some of them, you have been warned.

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  8. HAVING BEEN MARRIED TO A PERUVIAN WOMAN WHO IS NOW A U.S. RESIDENT AND CITIZEN, I HAVE TO SAY SHE TOTALLY CHANGED ONCE MARRIED. FROM A SEEMINGLY WONDERFUL WOMAN SHE TURNED OUT TO BE A PATHOLOGICAL LYING PERSON WHO MADE LIFE MISERABLE. OH, WELL. IN ANY CASE, IT'S NOT THE NATIONALITY, BUT AN INDIVIDUAL'S MAKEUP AND TRAITS.

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  9. Not one bad experience but if you meet alot,and I do mean alot of them and they are the same then you know what they are...Also,there is no suck thing as a perfect women,but if you want to find a peruvian women she'll be nice at first but this is just only for intrest.

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  10. And how is this different from any woman/man all over the world? Maybe 30-40 years ago as thrid-world countries were still un-sophisticated. But today, the idea of finding some obedient slave I would think would be a little remote. C'mon if you can't find a woman attracted to you at home, why do you think all of a sudden you are the hunk some 20-30 year old something wants on the other side of the world. Get real, too funny....

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    1. Short and simple answer but so true. I am married to a Peruvian woman, I am french and a teacher with an average life, having traveled to many countries and also having family in Romania just as less developed than France as is Peru, I realized that many foreigners from so-called developed countries travel abroad seeking for women as if half of the investment one must put in a relationship is indirectly managed by their wrongfully and ill-placed economic 'superiority'. Dealing with cultural differences is already hard on an everyday basis, that is why once I met my wife I paid a lot of attention to her social and educational background, aside from her emotional personality of course. Furthermore men qualifying Peruvian women as archaic should look at themselves. What kind of men are you if you need someone else to do things for you in the house? A man's success doesn't not increase with his nationality except on short term relationships. Anyway I see a lot shit among those numerous comments. If I had to judge American women according to their everyday attitude and futile expectations, the list zould be long.

      PS: this message isn't personally addressed to 'Anonymous June 5, 2010 11:30 AM' but to the people who shared their view on this subject. I just didn't know where to post.

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    2. yeah bit you're french so you scum as well

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    3. You want to get real? The plaque of Feminism that's what the difference is. In america, women are raised for generations to look down on men. Movies, commercials mostly make dads, boyfriends to be idiots and clueless people. Family/divorce laws cater to women. So to answer your question, Men CHOOSE to go aboard! But I know feminists are working hard to influence other cultures with the "oppressive" poor women situation! Funny the oppressors are the ones who die in war and work in dangerous jobs and pay the so called oppressors! I personally have a Peruvian girlfriend whom I keep in Peru, oh and I make sure it's in Arequipa type cities. The little cities are the slowest to changed by the lying feminists!

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    4. If you are having such problems with woman, maybe you should look in the mirror sometimes you are looking at the problem

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  11. My name is James, and I met one of the kindest, gentelest, and most passionate Peruvian women Lissette Lopez in Destin< Florida USA. She was making it for herself. A very idependent woman with her own ideology; however, she seemed to have a strong desire for me as I had for her. I always wanted to return to that moment in my life that happened ten years ago. A love that will always stand the test of time. I still look on facebook.....maybe oneday we will find each other again.

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  12. I am married to a woman from Lima, THE BIGGEST MISTAKE I HAVE MADE IN MY LIFE. She is a compulsive lair, money hungry, I have watched her on webcam attempt suicide 4 times, pills, with a knife, hanging and rat poision when I tried to end it. I believe that she is still having sex with her ex husband. I believe now that I am beginning to loose my mind now from catching her in so many lies and her saying that I am just jealous and crazy. If you are considering getting involved with a woman from Peru your life will be completely and utterly destroyed, financially, mentally and emotionally.

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    1. sorry, people are individuals, not everyone is the same. I assume that before you are with someone you have to evaluate everything. I am from Peru as well, I studied there, I went to Asia, Australia and Europe with scholarships and currently doing a PhD in Europe, I do things for myself. In my opinion, I think it is quite immature to say that everyone is like that, anyway sorry to hear you had such a bad experience.

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    2. She is a sociapath.

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    3. She sounds like a sociapath to me. Get out while you still can, and fast.

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  13. does anyone know how to go about finding someone that i'm sure got pregnant by me in peru in the mid 90's.
    i was young/it was wrong i know, not on purpose we never used protection for about a month i was there. i feel it and i want to right a wrong if i can or atleast send support.it was in lima. any help?
    jalwaysthirsty@aol.com

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  14. Word to the wise "anonymous" father.

    1. A person can have unprotected sex for a month and not get pregnant. It happens all the time. Did you guys do a blood test or anything?

    2. Make sure you get a blood/DNA test before you start sending checks. Now that you've put your email out in the public, I bet some unscrupulous person is going to try to take advantage of you.

    Brave thing to write and I admire the sentiment, but you better make sure things are as you think they are.

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  15. uh, an american here, i have been involved with women from different countries, i am in my late 40s now. i hate to say this, but there is something in the water: for your mental and financial health, do not, i repeat do not, ever allow yourself to get involved with a peruvian woman.

    i do not care how "nice" and "sweet" they appear, for how long they put on this act.

    i have gone the distance with one of these "women" for over 2 yrs.

    i have also heard stories about other peruvian women from both peruvian men, other american men, and other european men.

    they have all, without any of my experiences shared, reproduced similar nightmare, and i mean nightmare accounts of what it is like to be involved, be it marriage or a normal girlfriend relationship.

    i have never had a violent bone in my body, but only through being involved and living with such a woman could i come to understand how people could become violent, and develop terrible evil thoughts about bad things happening to another human being...

    the one that i have come to know is a pathological liar, and despite all her talk about god and the church etc, family and children etc, i have never ever met a more self absorbed, arrogant, vulgar, spiteful, vengeful, deceitful, greedy, ungrateful, disgusting excuse for a "woman" in my entire planetary existence.....

    the comments above ring true, loud and clear.

    and it is nor surprising i found this site so easily inputing the phrase "peruvian women are crazy."

    they are actually, deadly dangerous.

    stay away, look but do not ever touch....

    just my advice...based on hard hard brutal experience and confirmation from multiple independent unrelated sources...

    of course there are exceptions which "prove" the rule....

    avoid the chance you might meet a normal one.

    i sincerely doubt it, certainly not any of them from the middle an upper middle classes....

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    1. Was her name Magali by any chance..??

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    2. HAHAHAHAHAHA, I DIED!

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    3. Hmm...im talking to a gladys magali estrada cruz. Does this name ring some bells ?

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  16. Seriously. Everyone on this site bashing Peruvian women are PATHETIC! Just because you had one bad experience doesn't mean all Peruvian women are horrible. I happen to be a Peruvian women. I don't want to waste anymore time putting in my input but you guys are seriously ridiculous and retarted. Get a life.

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    1. there's not just ''one'' bad experience here moron...i'm not even a third of the way down the page and i've already read a dozen.

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  17. I hope you noticed that the original article is 100% positive. My wife and daughter are Peruvian, so obviously I love Peruvian women dearly!

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  18. I think all of those who speak bad things about Peruvian women met the same woman :D.

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    1. HAHAHAHAA OMG I DIE........ASwome COMMENT..LOL

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  19. What if a Peruvian woman meet an American man like Ted Bundy or William Trickett,so according to your complains all American men are like them too. Come on? You are pathetic losers who can´t find a woman.

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  20. Can anyone give me some input about Peruvian men?

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    1. jaja im Peruvian and I am 6^2

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  21. I am sorry for all the man that had a bad experience with peruvian women. I happen to be a peruvian woman living in the USA, learned english in Peru, save my own money to travel to Canada and the USA which I reside. Came with a dream to have my own business, which I actually have for 18 years, make excellent income, my american husband had to quit his job to help with the business. The only thing I asked was love, respect and honesty, money can come at any time if you work hard and have a drem. So I made twice as my american husband, he got jealous for a long time about my accomplishment, which are several, but I did not back up on my self esteem a threatened to leave, but know he knows I mean business, and maybe one in 1,000 peruvian or american women he can find a woman that has helped him to grow as a person, believe in himself, who has morals, have good self esteem, peace and much love to give. So I hope you can see not all peruvians are alike. By the way I came from a normal hard working family. I was the pioneer that opened the door for my family to get ahead, my sister is a very successful real estate agent, which also doubles her husband's income. So I guess we are a different kind of breed of peruvian women. It all starts at home.

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    1. you sound anything but humble...and just the way you said. what you said makes you sound like a real b@Q#h. and backs up alot of the horror stories that have been posted here.

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  22. I am a Canadian man who met a Peruvian woman on vacation in Cuba and fell madly in love with her. I have now travelled down to Peru to be with her twice since we met in November 2010. Some people say I am crazy to travel so far for someone, but I feel you only live once and you have to try to make the best of it. This past visit with her I got to meet her parents, brothers and sisters. They were very nice and reminded me a bit of my family back home. I agree with the person above it all starts with the family and friends. Her friends are all very nice and well established people with good jobs.

    I feel if we were ever to take to the next level and move to either one of our countries we live in would be very difficult, in that leaving a life you once had. I do not really have a plan or anything, I live life to the fullest and enjoy special moments with the one I love.

    I read a lot of horror stories on this page and I feel for ya. But I think this girl is the exception to the rule that all Peruvian women are crazy. She has a stable job and is very independent like me. Maybe I am just blinded by the love I feel for her and do not see a crazy person,but it feels right to me so I am not going to worry about it. I think that it really doesn't matter living life to the fullest has risks like starting a buisness you just have to hope for the best and be positive and do your research.
    all crazy.
    I love Peruvian women and they are not

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    1. Hello Mr.Canadian I have a question for you!This woman what was her name?Was it Miluska by any chance?Was she from Chiclayo?Does she currently live in Huancayo?The reason why Im asking is that I met a woman here who told me that she met a canadian(roughly about 50 years old)in cuba so I was wandering if that was you by any chance?

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    2. Hi mr idiot Canadian. I'm also Canadian and my experience tells me while your back here in Canada, your "true love" is being pig roasted by every cock in Peru.

      These woman are whores and liars. They're dirty and nasty and even think they're smarter than us. Save yourself the heartache. I promise you'll find she's a whore with some investigating. They're like hairless apes.

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    3. I am just like you, unfortunately mine ended recently because out of nowhere she just wanted to be friends! Granted, she is almost half my age! But I was very good to her. Till this day I still don't know why. She said she was afraid but when asked, she won't answer. She wanted me to keep visiting her but I don't see myself spending money to meet up with a friend!

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  23. I am peruvian myself and to tell you the truth, I don't like peruvian women that much. Yes, there are many good caring women in my country but ...i don't know. I't the way they talk, their view of the world and how the peruvian media has influenced their personalities. I thought it was just normal, but as I opened my eyes and looked around the world, I came to see the difference. Nothing against my fellow country women, but it's just to prove that women from other countries will certainly react different

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  24. I am a So California American who married a Peruviana de Mirfalores in 1985 and we are still married with 4 kids; I don't know anything different. She is a great wife and mother and has a great family that we visit regularly in Lima; love them all and the country. My observations over the years are that her and her Peruvian friends are more gracious and sincere than American women, and generally more fun. I do have to admit that arguements can get loud but they don't last long......usually.

    I have friends who have married American women and some have worked out and some haven't. Bottom line is that I imagine it depends more on the individual than it does the culture or origin.

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  25. Not like Americans are crazy, gold diggers, ignorant liars back stabbing, drug addicts, welfare whores, obese....
    You guys go to other countries and invade them for no fucking reason.
    Say you went to get Obama and murdered the wrong person without giving them a fair trial.
    Your water is polluted, your government corrupted and your president a clown.
    I am glad that I am a Peruvian woman...
    Cmon Americans, how dare you judge other cultures...when you guys have none?

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    1. you speak pretty good english there! Are you American?

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    2. Then go back to Peru if you don't like our country.

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    3. when did America invade Peru? Did I miss something?

      But that greaseball is right about the president being a clown

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  26. I'm sensing some anger issues.

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  27. Yes, a lot of anger issues.

    Perhaps she should talk to some of her Peruvian friends that are in the States illegally? Talk about an invasion!

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    1. Well hear this you fool and hear it from a European / french, you seem to be confusing economic power with culture, and I'm sure you are just an average middle class person who takes pride in something he hasn't built. Aside from some Americans which are highly educated as it is more common here, your country as a western country does not have a very long and meaningful culture.

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    2. What the hell are you talking about, cheese eating surrender monkey?

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  28. The kind of men writing on this blog seem to be low class american redneck type, probably the ones that go to the english pub in Lima to look for a woman, and of course they find it, a low class vulgar woman from their same level, a woman that goes to such places to look for a blue passport and green bills, basically cheap prostitutes. These vulgar men will never meet a decent peruvian woman from a nice educated family, these women are way beyond the reach of those losers, they just don't mess with men that do not belong to their level.

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    1. Finally a decent comment.

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  29. wow.. I'm speechless about the posts I'm reading. God created us all the same. And what's posted above is really sad. I understand about wanting to warn others about your experience, but don't down the entire culture. I am a 26 year old American woman who married a Peruvian man. I'm not obese,nor slutty. Not all American women are as you described. And I'm sure not all Peruvian women are as described. We shouldn't separate ourselves by cultures. We should separate ourselves by individuals. Don't slander any one culture because of the experience YOU had. (Me personally have had horrible experience with American men- but I'm not going to trash them because of what happened to me- however, I'm sure there are good American men...). Just step out of your box and realize that there are millions upon millions of people in this world. Not all people are good decent human beings, but many are good people. And they are from every race, every culture.

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  30. I am a peruvian woman married to an american guy. He makes a decent income so I can stay home to take care of the kids and the house but I don't consider myself a gold digger, let's see: I look for clearance items and use my coupons to get our groceries for less....I wouldn't consider that to be back stabbing b*a@#, I consider that being careful with what I spend; my children go to public school and they are doing fine, we have a routine and they do homework as soon they arrive home,they have extracurricular activities and we try to do fun things over the weekends...I would say I am just a normal woman,regardless of my culture. I cook everyday and like to sew and knit....does that sound like a backstabbing,money hunger person to you???? I think it depends of the individual more than what culture you come from.... at least I know I come from a decent and hardworking family, that's they way I was raised and that's how I am raising my children.....sorry to dissapoint you all that think that we peruvian women are low class.....have a great day!!!! :):)

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  31. well in my opinion, is not the country or culture is the family values,those principles than came from our grandparents, my girl is peruvian, and well her family is a litle be wear, because we have 6 months in the relation and her mother dont talk to me, and her brother and father do the same, and that situation keep me alert, but stop I dont said nothing again nobody, and is nothing to do with is they are from here or there, is the family values

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  32. I was with and married to a Peruvian woman for about 4 years. Great heart, calm, loving, caring, worldly, interesting, beautiful, sensuous, and near perfection. She never said no, and only wanted to please...wow. PERFECT right? No one is perfect except God. She was also jealous, not truthful, and wore a mask, and had somatic illness...she made me crazy at the end. Co-dependency and co-addictions did not help, as did a 20 year age difference, and a want of a baby.
    It ended badly...she ran away, and I go crazy resentful. Life goes on.
    She is money hungry and ended up with a Wall street money manager...but I new she was a puta from the start...pay attention to flags and lack of boundaries.

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    1. I now realize that this woman, was seriously damaged, from incest in her family, her brother at her age of 12. She never forgave herself, and looks for men to hurt and use. Plus, she is a brichera, true the peruvian word to the 11th degree...from me she goes to a goofy looking fat wall streeter, moves to Connecticut, and I am SURE she will have problems with the white woman of CT. She will be judgmental and the psychotic jealousy will rear is UGLY head once again, and the porn sex will get old....she will loose her grasp and find one more fly for the black peruvian widow to poison and devour. I thank GOD everyday, and I pray that she will heal, as, my feeling is, if she doesn't she will end up Schizophrenia or an alcoholic. Enuf said.

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  33. All the Peruvian women I know have the following in common:

    1. Goldiggers
    2. They have MULTIPLE marriages with the white race AND only race white race.
    3. Whores with no shame.
    4. Money Hungry (But for all the wrong reasons)
    5. 99% are FUGLY

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    1. Get used to it. You will always atract that kind of woman no matter what country they are from. If you want to know why..take a good look at yourself.

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    2. "Take a look at yourself" Ha... WELL SAID! Poor American Idiot...

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    3. I read your list and....I think peruvian wome are pretty good looking.

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    4. I have never met a woman from Peru but I have seen what they look like. I find many of them to be more attractive than American girls.

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  34. I just started talking to a peruvian woman who I met on-line; already the second day and I am finding out she's married to some american 50's something dude in the US (I'm a youg looking 40 year old :) and she is looking for a lawyer in the US for a divorce cuz the guy is MIA. Anyway, she talks about her problems (many of them), financial and other and has indicated she is sometimes suicidal. Now, I understand life problems (I have had a share of my own), my mind tells me to stop it with her, but my heart is a soft one and I want to give her a chance. When she talks about financial sometimes my mind thinks maybe she wants a ticket (with her 13 yr old son) to my country! What do you guys think? (Canada).

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  35. I AM PERUVIAN WITH 4 SISTERS, WE ALL GREW UP IN CUZCO, MY SISTERS ARE VERY SUCCESFULL,3 OF THEM MARRIED PERUVIAN MEN AND 1 A COSTA RICAN, THEY ARE ALL HAPPY,BUT ONE THING I NOTICE ,THEY RUN THE SHOW,SORRY BUT THEY ALSO WEAR THE (PANTS)IH YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN !!AN THE OTHER HAND I MARRIED AN AMERICAN (100%),BLUE EYES,BLONDE HAIR,SPECTACULAR BODY,GOOD COMMON SENSE,AND FUNNY,WE HAVE 4 CHILDREN 2 GRAND CHILDREN, ALSO SHE RUN THE SHOW ,SO I GUESS ALL WOMEN ARE NOT SO MUCH DIFFENT,MY BROTHER IN MARRIED TO A PERUVIAN WOMAN (29 YEARS ) HE SEEMS TO BE HAPPY WITH, (HAVE 3 CHILDRES),TO ME PERSONALLY ALL WOMEN ARE AGGRESIVE,STRONG,GENTEL,CARING,AND LOVING.

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  36. I am an American male married to a beautiful Peruvian woman whom I met in Oklahoma (she was vacationing there at the time on a Visa, but is currently a US resident). We've been married for three years and we share a son. So far our marriage is going well, although we have had our share of past arguments (loud ones i might add), but what marriage doesn't have those, right? I went to Lima for the first time just a couple of months ago for my R&R (yes, i'm military and currently deployed), and i met her family, which are all great people and very close to each other. During my visit, my wife introduced me to Lima's lifestyle (to include the nightlife there as well). Before I even set foot on Lima's soil, my wife was already warning me about the Peruvian women that will try to make advances towards me, and boy was she right!! Just about everywhere i went, especially in the clubs, I was receiving all types of flirtatious gestures from these women...but I think it was only because I was an American in their country. My wife also told me that when they see American guys, they see $$$$$. I agree with my wife; however, I'm not saying that all Peruvian women are like this, cuz after reading some of these posted comments, i can say that i do agree with the comments that say that there are decent Peruvian women...I should know, for I am married to one. Besides, there is not ONE perfect person on this planet, no matter what country he/she is from.....cuz in the end, we are all still equal human beings

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  37. Lol, I'm a Peruvian woman currently living in New York and I find some of these comments bashing my comrades hilarious. Date the person, not the nationality, good luck sheesh ;)

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  38. If someone thinks peruvian women are crazy, I bet that person never watched american news , you saw alot news about women killing men, killing their babies, etc etc etc..We all do the same : sterotype people..anyway I am peruvian married to an american man , happy married for more than 4 years and I am a dentist and he is a Biologist..so Was he after my money..? BLAH.Narrow minds people who thinks that..sadly you can find alot american women after money too but the big difference it is thay are blonde , and blue or green eyes and I can said that bcs my husband ex wife was like that..so BE AWARE OF THE AMERICAN WOMEN TOO !!!!.

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  39. im not yanky but im british and im only 25 and im not a sad old redneck haha. this is my experience with peruvian chicks. I spent 8 months in peru working. i got together with a peruvian girl i was workig with. the sex was tip top. possibly the best sex ive ever had. arguments are enjoyed by peruvian women, especially the bit after with the sex. you have to be in control with a peruvian girl. you have to treat them very well but at the same time let them know whos boss. they are the kind of people that you give them an inch and they take a yard. dont allow yourself to ever get dragged into any kind of situation your not happy with. the power of walking away from a girl that really likes you in peru is very strong. if she really likes you, and by that i mean wants to shag you every 10 seconds, she will run to your feet. and those saying there crazy, maybe they are, but its still bloody rewarding and they are bloody hot. its just a case of getting your tactics right. dont take shit. when i was in peru the girl i was with for the longest period of time got so jeolous once she dropped a wardrobe on me when i was sleeping. obviously i went ape shit, took control of the situation, chucked her out. two days later she was back on my doorstep predictable as hell. but you have to remember, they like this, this is life for them, its what its all about, so you should also learn to like it. if you dont like angry sex and emotional women, dont even bother looking. But, the most important thing, the most important thing of all, dont allow anyone to take control of you money but yourself, this is a ridiculous error. never never never let a latin chick your screwing get anywhere near your money, and make her spend money on you too. you want to see three things from her to be sure she really really likes you, and you most definatly have to want her to want these things if it is to be anywhere near successful. 1. you must make her ANGRY 2. you must make her JEOLOUS 3. you must make her WET. if you cant apply the lyrics to the rollingstones "under my thumb" to a peruvian girl leave her, leave her now. A latin relationship is a very rewarding, loving, highly highly sexual war. and i love it.

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    2. I am peruvian and have to say that your English is bad and inappropriate. I think it is a quite immature comment

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    3. Shut the fuck up it was a good post. Idiot.

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  40. I have been to Lima several times and I am from Canada.I have met with 2 different woman,the first was gorgeous with a kick ass body but was very jealous and a gold digger.The second one wasnt as gorgeous but seems more sincere and a very nice caring woman.She has a good job as far as peruvian standards go,well educated and lives with her mother.The problem that I have is that everytime I am there with her I am expected to pay for everything all of the time and as much as I like her it gets old after a while because I am not a rich person.She wants me to marry her there in Lima,so I have to pay for fair,the ring,the whole wedding and the honeymoon.After the honeymoon is over I get to stay with her mother all day who speaks little english while she goes off to work in 95 degree heat and I have to wait there all day and then I get to spend more money on her when she gets home.Its too much to ask so I called off the wedding as much as I like her.

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    2. well if you don't like it, just walk away, everyone can do it. If you are not sure, just don't marry her, you can find someone suitable :)

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  41. Follow up. I wrote the comment on March 25 (or March 30th). I have had time to reflect. My Peruvian wife, let's call her "Y" was a good person, who talked of being "conscious" and to live in the moment. She inspired me to become more conscious and find my center, which at one point, was her. I have to thank her for that. I do see that her claim of consciousness, not to judge mind you, was somewhat false, from the lies, manipulation, drama and control that was utilized to be able to walk away from the relationship, somewhat, "blameless". As it states in the Psalms: "The prostitute eats and wipes her mouth clean, as says, I have done nothing wrong." I knew she was a money hungry, or let's say, "security seeking" sex control using Peruvian Money puta. OK, so I am judgemental. I made a mistake in letting this one in to my life. The sex was good, what can I say. haha

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  42. Okay so I am a Peruvian woman living in the U.S., I am a citizen, not because I married anyone, but because of my dad who got to be a citizen decades ago.

    Doesn't matter where you are from, if you are looking for a wife in another country, specially a poor country, 99% of the time, women will only marry you for the money and try to get into a better social-economic situation. Yes, they will say they will be faithful, clean for you, cook for you and all that...then when they get their papers, they will kick your ass.

    Unless they are truly in love with you, and demonstrate this by their actions, then you shouldn't be surprised when they go crazy.

    Women are different, and yes some will do whatever you want and some won't, some will do 50/50 with you. You just need to know if you want a servant or a wife.

    Also, you need to learn how to communicate with your spouse and tell them what you like and not. Know them before getting married and stop getting married because it is time to get married or because there's nobody else out there for you... DO NOT SETTLE. I might add more later, but this is what pissed me off the most :/

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  43. I just want to say that some of your comments are very hurtful. I have no idea how I ended up in this page but anyways it does not matter. I have been in the U.S for about seven years. I did obtain my citizenship through marriage which did not last too long. My so called first world ex-husband had the same selfish expectations as some of you had. He expected me to be home, cook, clean, and make kids. He disagreed with me going to school, going to the gym, or having a social life. i left because I was not happy. I encouraged me to go to school with me, to go work out with me, to work on a business together. He was too comfortable were he was at. I left. I lI learned English,and educated myself while working about 60 hours a week the night shift. Now,I enjoy a high paying job, and my life standards are much higuer than his. Where i am trying to go with this is that you can not marry somebody else from a different country because of the wrong reasons. We are not made to just be home, cook, clean, and raise kids. Most of us had to work and provide for our families since we were young, something that many of you would not understand. we are made strong because of the conditions we are raised on. We are loving,caring people, and you can see that when you see us interacting with our families. We take care of our parents till the day they die. If you marry a foriegn girl just be smart, don't let yourself fool because of her looks, and if you are taking her away from her roots, take good care of her. Help her adapt to your culture, encourage her to learn the langiage, encourage her to take opportunity of all the things that this wonderful country has to offer.. I promise you that she would be so grateful of you for the rest of her life, and she would unconditionally love you.. try it!

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    1. WOW! HE WANTED YOU TO BE A HOUSEWIFE,HOMEMAKER AND A MOTHER.WHAT A NIGHTMARE.HE'S SOUNDS LIKE A REAL ANIMAL!ESP AFTER HE TOOK YOU OUT OF A SEWER COUNTRY AND GAVE YOU A NEW LIFE.....WHAT A ROTTEN PERSON HE IS.

      YPU SOUND LIKE REAL SELFISH BI$%#

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  44. After reading all of the comments, I would say that yes, Peruvian women are crazy! But they are also hot! My marriage to a Peruvian woman lasted nearly 17 years. We married in Peru after a very short courtship and she moved to be with me in the U.S. I listened to all of the comments about green cards and money from family and friends, but brushed it aside. If that were the case, I don't think she would have stayed married to me for that many years after becoming a citizen. She could have left to be with someone who made much more money very easily with her looks and smarts. We actually had a good marriage which included owning a home, having kids, taking vacations, having careers etc. As for being money hungry, I wouldn't exactly call it that. I would call it a strong aspiration to achieve more. Which is one of the fundamental differences that we had as a couple. I was comfortable, and she aspired more. I cannot fault a person for wanting more. As a person she was very stable. She was not a jealous person at all which actually made me wonder at times about her feelings for me. As for her family back in Peru, I couldn't have asked for better. They treated me like a king, especially her mom.So, if you art questioning whether or not a Peruvian wife is for you, my advice would be to take a chance. I have learned a lot and would probably do it again. The bottom line is that I am so attracted to them it would be hard to stay away!Just be smart and take your time. You shouldn't rush into something because of awesome sex. Just be ready and know that cultural differences are sometimes hard to adjust to. There are communication gaps, differences in humor, differences in family values, differences in friendships and many other things. The bottom line is that all cultures have their crazies and hopefully the one you love is not one of them!

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  45. WELL, WHERE IS YOUR EVER-SO-GREAT PERUVIAN WIFE NOW??? HAHAHAHAHA EXACTLY


    YOU AMERICAN MEN MARRYING ILLEGALS IS DEPLORABLE. I AM AMERICAN AND I WOULD NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS DATE OR MARRY A CRIMINAL, AN ILLEGAL. IF YOU MET A FOREIGNER HERE IN THE US, THAT IS FINE, BUT WHY DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH AMERICAN WOMEN? MEN ARE AGEIST AND THEY ALSO LIKE ASIAN AND LATIN WOMEN, SUBSERVIENT AND NAIVE, EASY TO PUSH AROUND, WE ALL KNOW THE TRUTH, ENJOY YOUR DARK MEAT, I AM STICKING TO WHITE, AND MY OWN KIND.AMERICAN. SUPPORT AMERICAN IF YOU ARE AMERICAN.....F*CKING DUH! MY FRIEND JUST FOUND OUT HI WIFE HAS FULL BLOWN AIDS, YEP, SHE IS FROM PERU...HAVE FUN W THAT GUYS!

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    1. YOU ARE AN IDIOT!!!! HAPPINESS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IMMIGRATION STATUS... USE YOUR HEAD INSTEAD OF LIVER...!!!!

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    3. You white Americans are all immigrants anyway, so sticking with American means with anybody. hehehe

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    4. can you use a better English?, it doesn't seem you are a well educated person, is the crisis so bad there?

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    5. You sir sound uneducated and just plain foolish. "Sticking to your own kind"? Fool I'm American, but guess what surprise plot twist I'm Peruvian! ( I was born here in America) So you can kiss my "dark meat" (I like to think of myself more as a carmel brown) ass. You pig.

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    6. Fat freddy. ... fucking amazing. Hahahahahahahhahaha

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  46. I met a Peruvian womwn during a month long stay.She emailed me in Uk saying how she missed me and wanted to have me return to Lima.I said I was interested and offered to let me live with her and her family.After a couple of emails more she askes me for 100 USD to help with te kids graduation.
    I ignored the request and carried on the conversation as before.
    Next reply from her was to say that when I came over the relationshipwould be 'companionship' and not a sexual one----but we would see what happened as time progressed.

    Very clever.She is blackmailing me yes??

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  47. I have to say to all of you posting bad comments about peruvian women that, in fact, there are good and bad, just like any other race, but if you are lucky enough and found a good one, which by the way they are the big majority, you have hit the jack pot. Not only because they are beatiful and sexy and extremely sexual, but also because they want to make their man happy and do whatever it takes to achieve this. They are hard workers, good mothers, good lovers, and good wives. If you treat them good, you will have a wive, partner, friend, and lover for a lifetime. As far as being money hungry, don't let those few ones give peruvian women a bad name because most of them dont want to be taken care of. If they take 100% from you, they will give back 1000%. Believe me, I know. Im a peruvian woman, married, professional and very, very independent who was born and raise in Lima. I love America as much as I love Peru. Love you all... lovers and haters :)

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  48. You all have given me much to consider. I met a Peruvian woman on the internet 9 years ago. I liked her very much and considered marrying her. As I read your comments I see many complaints about the exact behaviors that bothered me so much. She did not respect boundaries, there was always MUCH drama in the relationship. She wanted to introduce me to her friends as her "husband" before I had even met her in person. I told her I wanted to go slow because I had young children who needed time to heal from a divorce yet she called my minister to check me out behind my back. I wanted to meet her in person first before moving on to "next steps" but she insisted that since she has a 6 month visa, she needs to move in wiith me and stay 6 months. She also used the bait of needing to have sex to make sure we are compatable during her visit. I explained my boundaries over and over that my first concern is my young children and that I would not be willing to have someone move in for 6 months that I have never even met. I explained that my children would need time to get to know her and not suddenly just rush into having a step-mother form nowhere. I offered to buy her airfare and provide seperate lodging for two weeks and she kept turning into 6 months and musts sleep in my bed. She would not meet me except on her terms.

    Two things became clear: 1) this was a battle of wills and 2) she has her own agenda with no regards to what I want or what is best for children she would become a parent to.

    After a few months of the angry drama and senseless fights I moved on and met someone who turned out to be more "mild" and has become my wife.

    When I told "Silvita" I would be getting married, she got drunk and staged a suicide attempt on the internet and simultaneously over the phone so I could feel the drama of the moment as her life slipped away. Of course it was just drama and nothing happened.

    The years have passed and she still keeps in touch from time to time and she burned through another American man, married him, pushed him to get her citizenship nd bring her family over. He instead moved to Peru, bought her a small farm and then cleaned him out financially till he moved back to Miami and in the divorce he lost a huge amount of money.

    True story...she contact me a few months ago telling me her life is empty and she wants children so with the money she now has, she was gonig to get Invitro- fetilization. Last week she sees me on Facebook and IM tells me it did not work. A few tender words here and there on her part wishing she could have children. Well she calls me tonight asking me to come down to Peru and spend a month with her to get her pregnant...No strings attached. She is completely aware I am still married and building a happy meaningful life. She promises the "favor" will mean everthing to her and she is so grateful for my friendship. Of course she will not let this affect my marriage or my life in any way.

    Now it is not my place to judge a culture but in the case of THIS Peruvian woman I feel a reasonable person could be forgiven for asking if "Pervian Women are All Crazy or what."

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  49. Hi, I am Peruvian and I have to tell you that I am happily married with an American Army Gentleman. Fortunately we met online and we corresponded for 3 years. Later he came to Peru after a year of deployment. We spent three months knowing each other more. My friends, family and I got in love with him and we decided to get married. I was not looking for dollars or a citizenship. I did not need them. There are bad people around the world and you can not say that all Peruvian women are bad persons. Probably you just did not meet the right person. That happens. Good luck the next time!!!!! Namaste..........

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  50. Five things for all gringos and gringas here:

    1.-It's true that peruvian women are stable. Generally latino women (not only peruvian) can face different challenges without become crazy or stressed. "Stress" is an american fashion. A latino woman (not only peruvians) wants shine professionally, but it doesnt mean to forget that they are wife, mother, partner and lover. Why? Because they grow thinking that this is the way. A traditional peruvian girl will life with parents until get marry or until get a job or higher studies in a different city. Very few girls leave parent's home before 20's.Peruvian mothers dont say: Very good, you are professional so, you will not clean the home like me. They will say: "Very good you are professional. You will be a better mother than me"...and so on.

    2.-Here there are awful stories about matrimonies and divorcies, but...Isnt there awful stories in CNN about american women killing their children? Did you know that an american boy went to Peru, got marry with a traditional peruvian girl, and then he killed her, cut her body in pieces, put her in a bag and then he throw the bag into the sea? Then: All american women kill their babies? All american boys are murderers? I dont think so, they are only an isolated cases. Same with peruvians women.

    3.-If you want to search good peruvian women, you should search in work enviroments, offices, hospitals, stores, universities, churches, institutes. You will find there traditional, highly educated, and nice girls. You will not find a peruvian law student in a cheap pub. You will not find a bitch listening mass. You will not find a decent girl showing herself half naked in internet. You will not find an ignorant money-hunger girl, working as doctor or nurse. If you go to Peru and a girl in a discoteque is dancing half-naked, and she kisses you passionately the first day that she see you, or you chat with her making cybersex, or you found her in a hot dates web site or she accepts make sex one week after see you, or she asks you money money money (and you, trying to appear very rich or very cool, give her money money money) is not a traditional peruvian women. Is a traditional bitch, an there are traditional bitches in whole world.

    4.-If a traditional and nice peruvian women accept a relation is because she wants know you seriously (thinking in a possible marriage or at least in a very serious and stable relation). It means that you should know her parents, her family (she will invite you to her home), and she will want to know your parents and your home. Why? Bcoz this is peruvian way! This is called "enamorados" stage. It could take years!! If after sometime you decide she is not miss right for you (or she decide your are not mr right for her), relation ends. If after this mutual knowdledge, you decide marry her, you should "ask her hand" (propose her) and then you will marry. If you dont want a serious relation or you are not thinking in get marry, or you dont want go through all this stages, then search a bitch. They will give you sex with no complications, nor commitment.

    5.-Finally...There's many american-peruvian or european-peruvian couple with a very happy life. But they knew: how to choose, where to search and accept cultural and emotional diference. This is not craziness. It's real love. And real love (in both sides) is necessary for a happy married life.

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  51. I know this blog is about peruvian women, but I'd be interested in hearing some comments about an American woman's experience with Peruvian men. I've heard that most Peruvian men are unfaithful and have mistresses, and that they consider this normal. I've also heard that the Peruvian women accept this, saying, "that's just how men are". Anyone have any info on this?

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  52. Having lived and worked in Peru for many years, married a woman from Pucallpa (where I was working) divorced after 10 years and now have a stormy (now live-in) relationship of 3 years with a teacher from a suburb of Lima......all I can say is if you want an amoral (no morals)bar-girl, then go to Miraflores and get one....but don't be surprised that you wind up with a money hungry unfaithful wife!

    As a previous commenter said, if you are looking for a 'real' person, try to meet one in their normal habitat......and see what they say when you tell them that you aren't interested in moving to North America or Europe, but want to live forever in Peru. Tell them that you are just a poor working-man, just making ends meet (they likely won't believe you, as Peruvians generally think that ALL Gringos are 'rich') live in a poor working-class suburb of Lima, like Comas...or if you want to push it, Puenta Piedras....and see how fast (if) they run.

    YES, there are Peruvian women who are simply in it for the quick money so that they can live like they would like to, but there are many who are loyal and loving, who would do ANYTHING for you......YES they are hot and passionate...about love, sex, life and living.....BUT from personal experience in my travels all around the world for work, living in various countries.....ALL WOMEN ARE CRAZY....NOT JUST PERUANAS....RELAX AND ENJOY IT!

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  53. Women from trujillo are hot blooded in every way but don't contradict them or try and take the remote control or suggest a different restaurant. you will be in big trouble.

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  54. HEY, IM A WOMEN FROM PERU, I THINK YOU MARRIED GOLD DIGGERS OR BRICHERAS, THOSE WOMEN ARE EVIL AND ONLY WANT YOUR MONEY , SPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A WHITE MALE FRoM AMERICA OR EUROPE, DONT MARRY SOMEONE WHO HAD CHAT WITH YOU 2 YEARS AND ONLY HAVE SEEM ON CAMERA WEB, REALTIONSHIPS ARE MORE THAN LAME WORDS AND GIFTS, I WISH YOU LUCKY AND BE CAREFUL WITH THOSE WOMEN , THEY ARE NOT ONLY PERUVIAN.

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  55. I am a peruvian women as well and I know for sure those type of women. They don't have a lot of resources and they enjoy taking advantage of men. All peruvian people I know would be able to differentiate "these" type of women but apparently not foreigners who usually get trapped into them. Yep. I see this happening all the time in Miraflores. Come on guys! Seriously? Meeting girls at cheap clubs won't take you to get the women of your dreams. Search for an educated woman at the right places because these women have no moral! It's so obvious these women have no class: it's in the way they dress, the way they speak, everything.

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  56. Im gonna say this now...If you are tryna find some perucha who has good looks and spoil her during this relationship and lets not forget you have to know who your marrying.anyway Why do you want to take a woman back to the U.S.?if she is soo dead set then you know what she is looking for.this is not only for peruchaz this is for any woman who is not from the "U.S." and quickly tryna get into your pants and blow your D**k for papers.Dont be some creepy Fat 58 year old guy half shaved face and go to peru and expect to get any young woman to run to you for a Family.and this So called "Wonderful life".Be reasonable!.Point IS if you want this wonderful perucha.get a traditional one.even if she is a CHOLA!Im Half perucho And i wont MIND being with a chola IN HER COUNTRY WHERE SHE IS MORE FAMILIAR WITH HER SURROUNDINGs.Why Dont you get used to her country.not like it'll kill you to live there for a few years

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  57. Poor guys...Why americans think that all people want to go to live to US??? I see people in Peru and in all Latinamerica that have more status and money than many red necks, pinches gringos!!! Remember...The worst people goes out, the best people stay.

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  58. ok let me start by saying im half peruvian and half english, iv lived in england most of my life and been living in peru the past 3 years not including the years iv spent alternating between the 2 countries. so iv got a pretty good grasp of both cultures. now let me say if u r from aboard and u go to certain places u will only find bricheras(these so called liars who r only after passports). peruvian girls from good backgrounds never ever ever visit these places and even make fun of fellow peruvians who r seen in these places. i wont lie iv been to these places many times but i have it very clear in my head that any women i meet its to get laid and only laid. now i can tell a brichera a mile away, but that comes with experience. now bricheras u will find everywhere but if u want to cut down on the bricheras factor go to the classy bars who have doormen who decide who goes in and who doesnt as these doormen can also sniff out bricheras very easily and dont let them in.

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  59. And may I ask why on Earth you think all women in a country are the same?

    I'm Peruvian, met my husband in the US during an internship. Went back to Lima to finish my studies, visited several times on a tourist visa I have had for at least 15 years, and finally married him. My parents came to the wedding on their tourist visas, and they also paid for our pretty awesome wedding. I'm an engineer, I speak 3 languages. Why you would put all people in one sack due to arbitrary geographical delimitations is beyond me.

    I guess I'll just go ahead and call all American women fat rednecks, then.

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    1. they are fat rednecks dear so I agre I am American I know very fat red necks exspecialy at 50 years old fast food rednecks is very coorrecto kudos

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    2. I agre too dear..... pfffff

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  60. I´m a Gringo from Texas and have been living in Peru for about 4 years now doing export business. I´ll just tell you like I tell my friends back home, Peru isn´t the place to come too if you´re looking for hot chicks period. I have lived in the jungle, sierra and Lima and have been pretty much everywhere in Peru with the exception of the upper northwest side like Piura and Tumbes. Sure you can find a few nice girls even in the worst hellholes on Earth but The fact of the matter is most Peruvian women are just too indigenous looking, so if you like girls that look like Pocahontas (and not the cartoon ¨cute¨ version either) than you will like Peru. But it´s not just that they are physically unattractive they are also like lifeless Zombies. These girls can´t fuck either, it´s like fucking a dead corpse with these Peruvian girls and I´ve been with girls from the jungle also where they are suppost to be more ¨caliente¨ but that my friends is all BS. The women here are also lazy and don´t take care of their bodies. Some of the chicks you see have the meat in the right places but they don´t do any exercise to tone that shit up. Sure they´re easy to get but shit the only ones that have some talent in bed are the ones that have been with gringos before. Colombia is where you need to go, Beautiful women all over the place and they think they are just normal because there are so many hot ones. Unlike here in Peru if you do find a cute one, not only is she going to know she´s hot but millions of other guys are already trying to get her also. Another thing about Peruvian women is they don´t seem to have any real preferences in men, it´s all about resources that they need at the moment. It could be money, food, clothes or whatever but they will go with the man that has which ever resources they need at the time to give. It doesn´t matter if you are a young goodlooking guy or an old man in a wheelchair they will go for the resources and not physical attraction or anything natural like that. Me, I don´t even waste my time with Peruvian chicks anymore I always go over to Colombia or Brazil for women, it´s WAY better.

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      "The fact of the matter is most Peruvian women are just too indigenous looking"

      Hmmm... personally, I like 'em dark. And doesn't anyone appreciate the noble features of the indigenas?

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    2. After having made several trips to Medellin, I agree. In fact, Peruvian women are the ugliest in all of South America.

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    3. The traditional peruvian women dont go to the gym, because they work, they take care of their husbands, they make the housework, and so on...Im a peruvian living in USA. An american mother doesnt care if the children are in home seeing TV, without anybody to talk. She needs to take care of her body, so she will go to the gym. A peruvian woman will take care of children on the top, even more than herself. So, please dont go to Peru searching a wife, because you want a model, you dont want a wife or a mother for your children.

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    4. And for people saying that peruvian girls are ugly...Who cares? If you dont like them, so dont see them. Everybody have their own taste...

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    5. Gringo from Texas, you probably date with very poor girls that want to take your resources. Because in Peru, there are many girls that work and study, and earn good money...Why you cant date with medium n high class girls? Dont show that all peruvian girls are poor, because if you live 4 years in Peru, you should know very well, that you are not telling the truth.

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    6. LOL, I have been there for a year, and if you only look for ppl with money problems..yeah, but it is right?why don't you date medium or high class girls??..they are so different and passionate too :)

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    7. I have the feeling that i saw the same post of that texas faggot oldman in other website hahahaha...get over, dude. :P

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    8. Gringo for Texas just go to "pueblos jovenes" (poorest neighborhoods in Peru) to find poor girls, without education....why? Maybe he is not enough manly or interesting to meet nice girls in some University, or maybe he is not professional, so he cant find professional peruvian girls to date...

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  61. Me again. I forgot one thing. I guess this would be a ¨good¨ thing about Peru, which is that for the most part they are pretty docile. Yes they lie and steal but it isn´t an in your face kind of way, they are pretty much pussies. What I mean is you don´t really have to worry about being attacked (if you are a man that is LOL!) I was living in the jungle and it got so boring that I had often missed living in Mexico where you always have fights going on or something. And Mexicans are more funny even if it is a more macho kind of humor. These Peruvians are like fucking drones and STUPID as hell. Have any of you ever noticed this, you can ask a Peruvian something and they will shake their head as if they understand whatever concept you are conveying and at the end they really didn´t get it? LOL! And in the juingle these fuckers can LIE!!! You could hook thes SOB´s up to a lie detector test and they will pass the test even though they are LYING like a mofo! LOL!

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  62. To the writer of the article above..."Mister you're full of shit"!!!STOP DISSING OUR AMERICAN WOMEN...Im an american male who has been living in Peru for three years and I must say that I hands down prefer "AMERICAN WOMEN"peruvian women are pendejas that constantly practice "LA PENDEJADA"they lie all the fuckin' time!There are also many nut-case bitches in this country you know why?Many women here in Peru are abused both mentally as well as physically and when you have women who have been abused you will definitely have female nut cases that will carry all that mental baggage and thus are permantely damaged for serious potential long-term relationships.

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    1. I have been married to a Peruvian woman for 2 years now. What you say about the abuse is very true..this girl had a dad who kept a separate family and a mom that beat her with a garden hose if she came home from school with a hair out of place. Of course mom taught her all men are evil just look at dad. Result: angry, rageful, violent and above all, a pathological liar as stated in other posts.

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    2. Oh my God, but where you went to meet your girls!! If you go to an urbano-marginal place, where people even doesnt have 24 h water, of course you will find that. Maybe you cant reach the medium and high class girls in Peru. When you are able to socialize with that kind of girls, please let us know.

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    3. hmm you 'r searching for poor ppl?? not all poor ppl 're like that, I have met some quite nice but it might depend

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  63. Be careful with HIV texas man

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  64. all of my friends have beautiful a bodies and take care of themselves...including myself..if you dont like "jungle girls" as you described them..why not go to the city and find a european peruvian?? everyone has a preference of what they think is beautiful. I find all of these posts very offensive makes me sad! I love american men..because I find them extremely attractive..I am christian and most of the men from my homeland are catholic. I came to the us when I was 4 years old and I have adapted to american culture.

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  65. hurray for cholitasJuly 23, 2012 at 1:38 PM

    Personally, I don't think it's Peruvian women that are crazy. It's all women! Women from anywhere in the world are impressed by men that have (or are perceived as having)success, a suit/uniform, money and confidence. That's just on a superficial level, like men being initially attracted to women with huge knockers and a pert bum!

    Transplant any gringo to latin America and the effect is magnified. The women associate gringo-ness with wealth and success. Instant attraction! Every time I went to Peru it was like being famous. Women looking your way all the time. Could've really misbehaved if i hadn't been married.

    If you're looking for a special lady, you just have to be discerning, that's all. Just as in all countries. And don't talk to me about bitches. A large section of the world's bitch population live here in old Blighty and have tattooes on their arses and are covered in fake tan. Ha ha har!

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  66. hurray for cholitasJuly 23, 2012 at 1:40 PM

    The biggest problem I had with my Peruvian wife, was that she didn't like my constant farting. A big no-no in Peruvian culture, apparently. We decided to live in seperate cities so she could get some fresh air...

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  67. webbinator@yahoo.comAugust 12, 2012 at 6:26 AM

    I met a Peruvian girl when I went on a scuba diving trip to the Bahamas in 2004 after I returned from Iraq. She was teaching Spanish in the summer there to grade school children with her friend. A few months later I went to Lima Peru and surprised her there, I stayed for one week. In 2009 I visited her in Nassau Bahamas prior to a tour in Afghanistan. I returned from Afghanistan in 2010 and stayed with her for 60 days. She has also visited me. Her son is going to college next year and she will be alone. She has asked me if I love her, and I do, but I am not sure that I am the right person for her. She makes mistakes, but she is not like the women some have described in these comments. She is genuinely a good person. Selfishly, I would like to have a free place in the Bahamas to stay when I go there to scuba dive. Yes, I pay for everything when I go there. Her friends are also very nice people. I may have to let her go because I love her. She tells me that she is sad because she is away from me, but it is not realistic right now.

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  68. This is great. Wastew of time. Stupid people writing stupid comments

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  69. To AnonymousJuly 23, 2012 1:46 PM:

    I didn´t say because they are dark skinned, I said Too indiginous looking as in faces like the kind you see on a totum pole.LOL

    To AnonymousAugust 24, 2012 7:27 AM:

    I didn´t say anything about them being ¨poor¨ or well off. It doesn´t matter they all just go for resources and nothing else.

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  70. que pena tener que leer testimonios de muchos deserebrados....

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    1. increĆ­ble que como extranjero tantas veces tengo que corregir a peruanos con su propio idioma, se dice descerebrados, saludos

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  71. American Man who was married to a Peruvian Woman for 8 years.
    Following rules apply to any great sexy woman you meet in a 3rd world country or anywhere really.

    Women in most countries have traditional rules(US actually has many, multiple cultures) that they go by. In Peru if you have not courted the woman with an escort (usually a sister or family member) for an undetermined amount of time you are probably about to be screwed. It is generally expected pretty much everytime as a general rule that if you go on a date with a woman and you're alone with her you will most probably be taking her to bed. Hmmm what rule applies to a woman you meet at a club and take home?

    Women in 3rd world countries are no different than any woman from any other country. You must understand basic knowledge of these things before you start looking for your wife. In the US you can also find a woman that will sleep with you on the first date and appear to really love you too, especially if she senses that you are a step up and have some perceived value.

    That is the trick isn't it? How do you know if the other person is lying to you when she says that she loves you?

    Suggestion, if you have found that once in a life time companion go ahead and marry her. Just don't bring her back to your country (provided of course you have that flexibility). Enjoy her and everything that her country has to offer. If she really doesn't love you how long can she really fake it?

    My marriage lasted at least 8 years. I think that she was really trying to love me. It never really was there. When love isn't really there what is a woman to do? Especially when she is away from her family support. How long can you lie to yourself until you realize that it never really was there? We get what I call those love blinders on and see what we want to see. When we wake up we are stuck with our bitterness and perhaps a poor kid in the middle?

    Last and final advice...find a woman that will love you not because she needs what you have to offer (money, house, etc). Find a woman that needs you because she loves you. A woman that stays home on your dime has way too much time on her hands. How long does it take a woman to keep a clean house clean or to cook most food dishes? Women should be like guys productive and equal in a relationship, presuming of course you are a productive guy.

    Finally communication and honesty is required. If a woman is speaking to you with a 2nd language does she really understand you? Do you really understand her? Take the love blinders off step back, analyze, before you marry her and make sure that you know what you are about to do. Good advice anywhere.

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  72. I have come to realize that incest in Peruvian poor society is not as taboo as is in other cultures. It happens far too often and is blow off as with minimal repercussion. Also poor peruvian woman, never want to be poor again, and will being a Brichera is acceptable part of the culture...to screw yourself to a better, whiter, social level of live. Sort of a modern day, Eva Peron story.....I had to learn this lesson the hard way. Life is a lesson.

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  73. My father married a South American woman, who would cheat on him, beat him and push him down stairs and eventually put him in a hospice to die. He suffered terribly from being married to her. On her visit to the hospice she would take photos showing great affection acting like a dutiful wife in preparation for the ultimate showdown for the family estate. After my father died She inherited everything that was left but only after she had spent the majority of the money. I could do nothing as I was serving in Iraq, then Afghanistan, but I managed to advise my brothers and sisters not to contest the will because with all the debt she had incurred any court fees would take what was left, then she moved onto the next unsuspecting retired trucking company owner and married him, then she rang me to tell me how wealthy she now was. I remember early in my fathers marriage to her I was invited to attend a social gathering at South American club in Brisbane Australia and her niece and nephew said they did not like her because she spoke gutter Spanish. Today I dislike these people which is a shame because it only takes the few rotten apples such as this woman to act worse than the majority of my fellow countrymen

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  74. Peruvian women are the ugliest in the world by far period. Even peruvian men say so.

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    1. Really??? Well, always Peru is into the 8th top places in the beauty contests. Maybe the only place that you know is some poor area in Lima, or you went to Cuzco to meet indigenous girls (that can be very cute for some men) Maybe you style and your personality is not enough even to date a cute girl in the coast, or in a nice neighboor in Lima.

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    2. ¨Well, always Peru is into the 8th top places in the beauty contests.¨

      LOL!!!!!!!!

      Care to provide proof of this? I await your forthcoming failure to do so.

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    3. peruvian women are FUGLY, americans looking for easy women with no expectations should come to Peru, but dont expect much, if you want hot girls everywhere go to colombia, venezuela, etc.

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    4. Maybe the ones that talk to you are. Maybe your the Fugly one budy

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  75. Peruvian women are hiprocates I was married to one for 5-years she made my life impossible I am gad that Iam not with her any more....I have a Colombian girlfriend now she lives here in the us with me and let me tell all you guys should know this Colombian women a prittier than those sorry ass Peruvians!!!......

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  76. sounds like you peruvian ladys need to get your shit together theres a lot of shit storys here

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  77. This is absolutely ridiculous! I am aPeruvian, woman i was married to a US citizen man (Man just to use a respectful word) for the time I was married, I had to take care of out 3 children, cook, do laundry, keep myself in good shape and still work 2 jobs (FT and PT), while he kept getting traffic tickets, watching porno, then finally I coudd get rid off him when he was charged for peeping tom and ended up in jail! :( a Craxy white husband but I love my beautiful children !
    I do not consider myself a "Perfect woman" because there is not such a thing but I am not as crazy as you are describing peruvvian females here. At some point I thought all white american man are bipolar, dishonest, cheater, like to take advantage of hard worker females, but I was wrong. Now I am dating a White man for almost one year, very honest, government employee DOS, and He is just amazing, he does things that even my children's father does not do. He is just like my other half, I cook, he gets ready the dinner table, I get the movie, he gets the wine and popcorn, I go groceries shopping and he cleans the fridge, he is just my other half. Now I kept my FT job and we spend and enjoy every single weekend with my children. Planning to have one more! =)

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    1. That is the true defenition of a partneship. Good for you guys.

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  78. I was engaged to a beautiful peruvian/venezuelan lady for many years, but she decided to stay with her child above moving in with me. She was incredibly independant, owning many businesses, had made herself in the world and never hesitated to be friends to her friends and compassionate. She had a lot of drama with her ex, which is unfortunate because the idiot (american idiot) was still in love with her and could not let her go.
    I am Swiss and now I am with a Balkan woman, she is very different and dramatic and crazy in strange ways. I have been with a lot of women, but after being with a peruvian woman I think very highly of them. I do not know about all peruvian women, but if my ex girlfriend is an example of what peruvian women are, then I adore women from Peru.

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  79. To AnonymousMay 29, 2013 at 11:43 AM above: If we are to accept your story as indeed true, then the woman in your story must have inhereted mostly Venezuelan genes. That would explain your positive and favorable experience and success. However any notion of actually going back to Peru and finding another such success....Well lets just say you would have better odds finding a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow.

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  80. Ive just read some comments here and I can say that everybody is not the same!! Im a Peruvian girl and Ive just come back to Peru for vacations, Ive been in USA and I traveled to different countries so many times, due to this fact I had boyfriends from another countries, Im very hardworking and independent woman, but I consider myself very unlucky even between Peruvian guys, most of my relationships ended very bad, full of drama, lies and dealing all the time with jealousy with possessive men I had in my life before.. I only asked for honesty and loyalty but I think both of them are so hard to give... I never ask for money, to pay my bills or something like that.. anyway even those bad experiences I still think that everybody is not the same, stereotypes are only in our heads and don't let you give a chance to somebody to have something which really worth. Just learn from mistakes!

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  81. http://compendium.travelvice.com/reasons-to-hate-peru/

    Go here for the truth on Peru

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  82. I've read the comments and, some of it sounds right. Yes, Peruvian women can be the best partners , caring, loving, loyal, committed, had working, respectful, know how to cook and so on.......but also very emotionally disturbed and turn your life around. Keep in mind though that all Peruvian women are not the same. Just be smart yourself, ask yourself: why is she dating you? what does she need? what will she gain? look at her family, friends, what type of people are they? how does she feel about them? what does she say? how does she view herself? where does she want to get in life? why?........do your homework. I am a Peruvian women and hate to say that I can be all, the positive and the negative, but only because I need to, so depends on the situation. If a man is fair with me, equally sensitive as I am with him, then he will always be treated like a king, but if he starts thinking that he owns me, controls me and abuses me, then I will surely make his life hell so that he stays away from me and leaves me alone for good. So just be fair if you really want a good Peruvian partner and act appropriately, you'll find it. Just keep in mind that some Peruvian women need money and citizenship, so be careful. Some comments here sound pathetic, sorry about that, some guys need to grow up badly. Good luck!

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    1. I met a Peruvian women recently who lives in Lima Her parents live in New Jersey. I currently live in California but I am from Boston,Ma. So before you negative aasholes get on my case before mention what I have in mind I have a chance to kill 2 birds with one stone. I haven't been back to Boston since I moved out here 4 years ago. She wants me to meet her in New Jersey and meet her family. Only a few hours ride from Boston. She is a lawyer ( ya I know watch out) and has a son who is also a lawyer and a daughter who is a doctor. She is educated obviously and for you guys that are searching in the jungle for undecuated women seek and ye shall find. She is a very good looking woman of 51 and if you want young uneducated women then good luck to you.

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  83. Hi All,

    I am an American Man who is 50 years of age. My experience with American Women is they are very lost in this American Women Sexism against all Men. I have dated women from all over and the Latin Women do respect and love having a man. I find most of them want to be home around there families. I plain on moving to Peru where the women are more stable and not influenced by the American Women's Sexism against Men. The American Woman is beginning to have problems with finding a man who wants them. Shame on the American Woman. You have made Your Bed now Sleep in it. No Good American Man wants to be treated with such disrespect. Notice that American Men are pursued by Women around the World as being the Best. How About American Women? Where are the Men pursuing You? The Truth Hurst does it not. That Being Said I think that Most American Women need to become Independent Thinkers and do the right thing and not be lead by the nose from these Women Liberation Groups and quite following their degrading of Men. Then American Women will find that Men will be more attracted to them and want them as Loving Wives and Mothers of their Children. I am not interested in any opinions who think I am a Bad Guy, most Men these days just walk the other way when We see your types coming, because nothing will come out of this that is constructive or good. So go on doing what you are doing Liberated Women and keep downing the Best Men of the World and lose out on the Best thing that could of ever happened in Your Life. Too All of The American Women You are Better then this and You can do much Better. Tomorrow is a new day life it for the Better. Best Wishes to You all.

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    1. It's important to note that you can still be caring and loving and still be "liberated." I think that's what American culture gets wrong. It's too much of a constant gender battle that gets very tired. Men and women are in this fight together, mutual respect is needed. And I think you'll be happier in Peru Dan!

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  84. I'll tell you if they get a good wife, will cost more effort. Not worth it to have sex on the first night. You can then do your wife a woman so easy. Be honest, do not cost much to conquer, so probably in your heart of hearts you know that's not worth it.

    On the Peruvian woman, is one of the most beautiful in South America. Just watch this http://es.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miss_Per% C3% BA. Some Colombians do not want to accept it and goes to ridiculous that when a Peruvian woman wins Miss World as it is very usual to win here, they immediately decide that it is not Peruvian. It's like if I decide that you are not American and Mexican do just because I feel like, jjajajaaj

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  85. To the dolt minos above: WTF are you talking about? Peru has only had 2 Miss world title holders and they're both related. The winner from 1967 was the aunt of the winner in 2004. So you got ONE family in Peru that has produced a couple of women whose faces don't look like the kind you see on a totem pole.LOL! Argentina has the best looking women in south America. If ine uses beauty pageants to claim their women are the best then Venezuela would have to be claimed the best. When the fact is you find better looking women on the street than most of the girls in those Beauty pageants.

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  86. I'm an American and I've been in Peru for 8 months now. My third Peruvian girlfriend and I just broke up...unfortunately we also happen to be living together. In response to all of the comments regarding Peruvian women's disposition: I would say that there are some really nice girls, especially once you get outside of the tourist areas. Yes, there are some bricheras, and of course they're usually where all the gringos are and there is a reason for that. I can say that I had one 2 bad experiences with Peruvian women, finding out that my 2 previous ex-girlfriends were slowly trying to get me to financially support them in some way, indirectly that is by buying them shit. With the first girlfriend, I stopped buying her things, just to test her out and see if she still loved me. This led to a lot of problems in our relationship, so we broke up. I did the same to the second one and the same problems ensued. Then, I talked to a couple Peruvian female friends of mine about this, and they told me that when you get into a relationship here, you need to 'go Dutch' or at least refrain from buying her things. This way, she has time to get lost once she sees that you're not a millionaire and if she really is a brichera. Also, if you're taking her out for dinner and dining her and then you suddenly stop, she will find this really insulting. So, I did this with my third girlfriend, and everything went well. She actually bought me a couple nice shirts and a beanie on my birthday. She was also really stable, and hated drama. She's a really nice girl, very pretty mestiza from the country, but unfortunately the relationship didn't work out because we had a serious communication problem: I don't speak Spanish very much, and her fluency in English is limited. We're still friends. Also, her family is very nice too, and they always took me on trips with them.

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  87. Dear everyone:
    You cannot judge all peruvian men and women as all being the same. It depends on each individual,. It is not where they are from, the social class, the education, etc. It depends on how this person was raised, its values, morals, standards, etc more than country or race. It is like saying all american men and women are red necks and uneducated; all swiss people are crazy and all germans are nazis. I am a peruvian woman who was so much in love with an american man but decided not to marry him because I still wanted to finish college, work, travel and do so many things before settling down in a little town in the middle of now where. Then, later in life, I married a peruvian man thinking that it would work great because he was from the same country, same culture, but it was a mess. He was a money digger, abuser, ignorant who stabbed me in the back. I divorced and married an american thinking he was great but he was cheating on my back. I have never asked any money from any of these men. On the contrary, I have always been too proud, independent and too self-sufficient because I went to school in the US and have a master's degree. There are good and bad apples everywhere regardless of the race, culture, country, social status, etc. Please don't judge others because of your good or bad experience. Please judge others according to their actions, not words, according to their values, not their appearances...and be careful where and when you put your trust. Just run away from negative people as fast as you can!!! Good luck!

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  88. One more thing about this American man whom I loved very much!!! He also loved me very much!!! We met in Hawaii and we feel head over heals immediately. Unfortunately, he was in the military and was transferred a few times before ending his duty. He came to Peru to meet my family and they loved him. I went to the east coast to meet his family as well and they loved me. However, I never stop loving him..never.. even though I ended up marrying someone else just because I was not ready to get married yet. And, he also never ended up loving anyone else but me despite the fact that he married someone else. At the end, he passed away tragically many years ago after coming back from Iraq. However, I still love him and I know someday we'll be together againSee!!! Love is not about citizenship, money, race, material things, etc...because we never used each other or hurt each other. Life was just not meant for us to be together here on earth but there is not a single day that goes by that I don't think about him. If you are in love with someone don't look at their nationality, race, profession, social status...don't even listen to their words...just observe and pay attention to their actions...and trust your instincts, your soul and your heart. After all, give it a try if you feel strong about it...and if you fall down, you can always get up. LIfe is not about not making mistakes, but making mistakes and getting up and recovering from them. God bless and RIP my dear USMC NHM...I will always love you. Siempre te amare!

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  89. hahahahaha all the guys on here who have problems with the women need to know how to be a man about it. When i come to peru i will show u silly white boys how to do it.

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